Listen to this. Susan Warner defines “trophy wife” or “trophy girlfriend” with an entirely new spin. She believes men have evolved after 60 and approach trophy, not as the modelesque six-foot blonde, but as a woman on their arm that is smart, witty, well-read and/or well turned out. Men are falling in love with a woman and her orbit-not solely judging her on her physical appearance. As a man and woman age, their needs, desires and wants become different from their younger selves. Beauty within, for both women and men, becomes far more important when you are dating or marrying the second time around. You learn that compassion, respect and devotion are the new trophies.